Nowadays, more and more people, who live in the city, complain that they are too “tired” to have sexual contacts as often as they would like to. It is true as well that sex is often the first casualty of the ever – increasing stress, which everyone experiences in his or her fast – paced lifestyle. But there is something, not every one is aware of – good sex is a great stress buster. It does not only help us to cope with out stress better, it also increases the energy flow of everyone’s body. That is why if a person considers himself or herself too tired to have sex at night, there exists one simple solution – it is to have sex the first thing in the morning. And there is even one benefit of morning sex – most men have an “early morning” erection.
How To Make Sex Fun
Remember your adolescent days, when there was only sex in your mind;
Think over about new ways of seducing each other;
Spend some time and energy in planning sex – anticipation can heighten your sexual desire greatly;
Set a “date” for sex. In accordance with out modern style of life, sex usually gets last priority, what you are to do – is to hatch a plot along with your partner – you may book into a hotel for a “night for sin”, far away from deadlines and commitments;
Watch erotic film together – it can help you in triggering off your own adventures;
Make experiments with different sexual toys, like vibrators, body oils, and edible panties;
Try to make sex in a shower, while taking a bath, or in a swimming – pool. It does not only feel clean, wet and smooth, water and soap can add magic to your feelings and explorations;
Try to have “kinky” sex. Erotic sex experiments are considered to be two – person operations, and “preparing to it” only leads to anticipation and excitement, so, that you would be able to break through the barriers and let yourself do something beyond your usual sexual limits.
Which positions are best for making a baby?
There exist such a misconception that if a couple wishes to conceive a baby, they are to have as much sex as possible and as often as possible and in all possible positions, as they may consider that the greater the number episodes of sexual intercourse, the greater their chance of conception. However, it is not true, as if a couple wishes to conceive, they should better have sex in a day, so, that the male partner will have a chance to recharge his sperm count; in addition, it will be the most effective to have intercourse somewhere around ovulation, like a couple of days before and one or two days after it.
There are no scientific studies, which concern the best sexual positions for conceiving, however, it has been widely considered that the missionary position (the male partner is being on top) is the most optimal for getting pregnant. In addition, it is possible to put a pillow under the woman’s hips and keep her legs raised after sexual intercourse, which may enhance the ability of the sperm to swim upstream in the right direction.
However, it is possible to conceive in almost any position, there is still some certain gravity – defying positions, like having sex in a sitting or in a standing way, or the – woman – on – top position, which may prevent the male’s sperm from getting upward.
In addition, those couples, which want to conceive a baby, should never do some things, like douching after sexual intercourse, as it changes the pH balance in the vagina, while sperm needs the alkaline – acid levels in order to be more or less balanced so, that it could survive. Moreover, while douching, the cervical fluid, which gives sperm an easier and quicker way to the uterus and beyond, gets out.
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